Mary Dillingham Frear

1870–1951 (age 81)

civic leader

Biography

Mary Dillingham Frear, born in 1870, served as First Lady of the Territory of Hawaii, bringing grace to that role while advocating for education, the arts, and the welfare of children and families. Her civic leadership spanned cultural boundaries, and she was widely admired for bridging traditions with thoughtful diplomacy.

She remained deeply rooted in Hawaiian society, supporting civic organizations and nurturing budding talents in literature and community service. Her resting place at O'ahu Cemetery honors a life of dedicated public-mindedness and heartfelt kindness.

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